Letter From The Editor’s Desk – The Legalization and Return of Common Law Marriages.
Hello ePrayer Circle’s Tribe,
Today, I decided to play around with Chat GPT and get results for this essay. It’s amazing what this AI community of software is doing. For two weeks, I have played with the idea of the return of legalizing Common Law Marriage all-over the US. Why? Statics show men are not marrying women and babies are being born into hardship and poverty. Some babies are not being born at all. In 2019, there were 6.5 marriages per 1,000 population and it is worse now. In Jesus Christ’s time, weddings were a big deal. Jesus’ first miracle was to turn water into wine at a wedding.
The institution of marriage was very important as it supported the members and generations of two sides of the family, as well as supported the upbringing of the children. During those times, people had many children to support farming. There were no nursing homes back then. The young took care of their aging parents and most people grew their own food. People were married ceremoniously by the woman simply moving into the home of the man and by both announcing they were married.
A celebration would be held for family and friends. Today, many people have private commitment ceremonies, live together and have sex but not necessarily in that order, not judging. However, they are legally married in God’s eyes. They have created soul ties and are considered one flesh. In my opinion, it was a big mistake to rule out Common Law Marriages. It took away accountability. It made many (not all) children grow up in poverty and without the direction of both parents. Did you know God considered it the man’s responsibility to raise (train) the child and not the woman’s? She is the caregiver. Do you think we should bring back Common Law Marriages? Did you know the blood of a child comes from the father and not the mother even though she carries the child?
Here are three questions I asked Chat GPT. I posted the questions and the answers below to show you the possibilities of Chat CPT. I am not sponsored or getting paid, just sharing.
- What is the percentage of people marrying in the US?
- What are the advantages for the family of “Common Law Marriages”?
- What are several potential advantages for children being born to married parents?
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Historically, marriage rates have varied over time and can be influenced by cultural, economic, and societal factors. In the United States, marriage rates have been declining over the past few decades. According to data from the U.S. Census Bureau, in 2019, the most recent year for which data is available, the marriage rate was approximately 6.5 marriages per 1,000 population.
It’s important to note that these figures can change over time, and there may be more up-to-date information available from official sources such as the U.S. Census Bureau or other reliable statistical agencies. I would recommend consulting the latest data from official sources for the most accurate and current information on marriage rates in the United States.
Mark 10:7-8 KJV 7For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; 8And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
2. Question: A common law marriage is one in which the couple lives together for a period of time and holds themselves out to friends, family, and the community as “being married,” but without ever going through a formal ceremony or getting a marriage license. : I got the definition of Common Law Marriage from FINDLAW. What are the advantages for the family of common law marriages?
- Legal Recognition: In jurisdictions where common law marriages are recognized, couples who meet the criteria for such marriages are considered legally married. This recognition can provide certain legal rights and protections to the family unit, similar to those of formally married couples.
- Note; I know people who lived together for over 20 years but when one person died that person’s children in another state, the same day of the funeral, took possession of everything in GA.
- Property Rights: Common law spouses may have legal rights to property acquired during the course of the relationship. In the event of a separation or the death of one partner, the other may be entitled to a share of the property acquired during the relationship, just like in a traditional marriage.
- Financial Benefits: Common law spouses may be eligible for certain financial benefits that are typically available to married couples. These benefits could include joint tax filing, access to spousal Social Security benefits, health insurance coverage, and pension benefits.
- Parental Rights: Common law marriages can help establish legal parental rights for both partners. This can be particularly important for issues such as child custody, visitation rights, and making decisions regarding the upbringing and welfare of children.
- Inheritance Rights: Common law spouses may have inheritance rights in the absence of a will. If one partner passes away without a will, the surviving partner may be entitled to inherit a portion of the deceased partner’s estate, similar to the rights of a legally married spouse.
- Medical Decisions: Common law spouses may have legal standing to make medical decisions on behalf of their partner in case of incapacitation. This can be critical in situations where formal documentation, such as a healthcare power of attorney, has not been established.
It’s important to note that the availability and specific advantages of common-law marriage vary depending on the jurisdiction. Different countries and even different states or provinces within countries have different laws regarding common-law marriage. Therefore, it is essential to consult local laws and seek legal advice to understand the specific benefits and rights applicable to common law marriages in a particular jurisdiction.
3. Question: What are several potential advantages for children being born to married parents?
Answer Chat GPT. There are several potential advantages for children being born to married parents, commonly referred to as being born “in wedlock.” It’s important to note that these advantages are not guaranteed for every child, as there are many factors that contribute to a child’s well-being and development. However, here are some potential advantages:
- Legal and Social Recognition: Children born to married parents are generally legally recognized as the offspring of both parents without the need for additional legal processes such as paternity tests or adoption. This recognition can provide stability and security for the child, as well as access to certain rights and benefits.
- Emotional and Psychological Stability: Marriage often represents a committed and stable relationship between parents, which can contribute to a more stable and secure family environment. Children in such environments may experience reduced stress and have a higher likelihood of developing a secure attachment with both parents.
- Financial Stability: Marriage can provide a more stable financial foundation for raising a child. Married parents may have more combined resources, including income, assets, and access to benefits such as health insurance and social security. This can contribute to better overall economic well-being for the child.
- Role Modeling: Married parents often serve as role models for their children in terms of healthy relationships, communication, and conflict resolution. Observing a loving and respectful partnership can positively impact a child’s understanding of relationships and contribute to their own future relationship skills.
- Supportive Co-Parenting: Married parents typically have a legal and social framework that encourages shared responsibility for child-rearing. This can promote effective co-parenting, communication, and cooperation in decision-making, which can lead to better outcomes for the child.
- Social Support Networks: Marriage often expands a child’s social support network. In addition to having two parents, children born to married couples may also benefit from the involvement and support of extended family members from both sides, creating a broader network of emotional and practical support.
It’s important to note that the advantages listed above are not exclusive to children born in wedlock, and children can thrive in a variety of family structures. The well-being and development of a child depend on various factors, including the quality of relationships, parenting practices, socioeconomic conditions, and overall support provided by caregivers, regardless of marital status.
In summary, Chat GPT gave very strong arguments for the family unit mainly in the areas of financial, emotional, and psychological stability, supportive co-parenting, social support networks; Rights of inheritance, legal, property, and medical history. In my thinking, 6.5 marriages out of 1,000 population are not good. I think so many social ills today could be solved and taken out of the government’s hands if we reunite in integrity and commitment as God said we should. Bring back Common Law Marriages. Remember, the old song “The Thrill is Gone?” Those thrills can come back, just work at it. People will become disciplined and make better choices upfront. It is God’s way.
1 Corinthians 7:2 KJV “Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.”
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